In life, one of the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This
choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right
then you will enjoy forever.
A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life. This subject is so important to the
extent that so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to be able
to make the right choice all over again. If you are single please don’t just be in a
hurry to get married, because you still have the best opportunity to prepare for it.
For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree
spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant how
would they live, if a goat marries a fish where would they meet?
You must look for a sincere and righteous man or a sincere and righteous woman
to marry, nothing can beat this. The devil’s primary target is the family. He knows
that everyone belongs to a family and if he can bring two wrong people together in
marriage, then he will succeed in destroying your relationship with God, breaking the community ties and the nation down as a whole, and this is part of what we’re
witnessing all over the world presently.
Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage
is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What
do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?
Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better, it’s not something you just jump into. That is why
you must know your purpose before you get married. You must pray before you
God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to
know God’s will when fornication is not involved. The moment fornication is
involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have broken His Law that says flee fornication. If you had been guilty in that
area in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other,
then you can seek forgiveness from God. Your marriage will not be hell on earth.
Your marriage will be honourable.
Don’t marry for sex, don’t marry because you are of age, don’t marry because you
are getting old, don’t marry because you are lonely, don’t marry because you need someone to support you financially, don’t marry because you mistakenly got
pregnant, don’t marry because you don’t want to lose the person, don’t marry
because of family pressures, don’t marry because you like the idea of marriage and
admire every wedding gown you see, don’t marry because all your friends are
getting married.
But get married because you want to fulfill what God has ordained on every one of His. Get married because you want to be a help mate, but most of all, because you
want to fulfil a purpose of making heaven. God will help you in
choosing, please let’s all continue to pray fervently to God for all we want.
Forward to all singles you Know.


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