So many people don’t know masturbation create serious problems till they get married. Both sex masturbate. Girls masturbate as much as boys do, they just don’t talk about
it. People masturbate on the excuse that they do not want to fornicate but since their bodies are burning they’ve gotta find a means of release before they burn to death.
Let’s talk about sex a little. The real enjoyment in sex comes when a man can go in, hold it, thrust in and out for a long time before ejaculating. I will be real with singles
here because most people set the wrong foundation for their marriages and ruin their chances of ever enjoying sex forever. A man needs to”hold it” for as long as possible before shooting because once he shoots that’s
the end of the show. The wife is left helpless with her body crying for more but the man can’t go further because he is completely done, worn out and weak. Here is where
masturbation ruin your sex life. The man is used to getting a release WITHOUT WAITING, he has formed a habit of going solo and getting a release as soon as the pressure
for sex comes on him, of course, since he is not married, he does not understand the consequences. After marriage, he suffers from PREMATURE EJACULATION. Some men are so worse that while the woman is still
undressing, he has already masturbated and wet himself to the disgust and annoyance of the woman. This is not theory, I’m talking about real life issues. Some men also
ejaculate before gaining entrance at all while some shoots the moment they gets in. These are all BAD,VERY BAD sex acts. Ladies who are always achieving orgasm
through dildo and solo stroking won’t enjoy sex too. You won’t be able to wait for the man to work on you. You are so used to the orgasm that you can’t feel the sexual experience or you compare your husband to your dildo or
sex toy. That’s why some women complain they don’t enjoy sex even if they have it with different men on daily basis. Learn to hold your body. Self control is a quality
you must possess if you want to enjoy sex in marriage. Some singles argue that it’s better to fornicate then and avoid the problem of masturbation altogether. It’s still the
same problem of IMPATIENCE and LACK OF SELF CONTROL. If you must always have sex as a single person, you will commit adultery in marriage, because whenever your spouse is not available or heavily
pregnant, you will go out and look for who to have sex with. It’s as simple as that. A successful married life is built on principles, you can’t eat your cake and have it. If
you cannot control yourself before marriage, you won’t control yourself after marriage. Avoid watching pornography. You can’t watch those heavy scenes and
not masturbate. Get close to God and get busy with your life and vision. An idle hand is the devil’s workshop. People who are physically and mentally lazy carry out all manner of vices imaginable. Read good books that shape
your future. Make friends with positive people who value chastity and purity. Avoid friends who crack dirty jokes and say lewd things.Respect your body, value yourself
and put sex in the right perspective. Learn to wait for sex. There is no where you are rushing to.. Stop that masturbation now before it consumes you and your future
sex life.

One thought on “THE PROBLEM WITH MASTURBATION!!!”

  1. Well, that is definitely an interesting post. I agree with you on something and not on others. i don’t think that masturbation is what ruins it. i started doing it when i was eight years old when i found the spray hose on the bathtub faucet. I didn’t even know what sex was. And it is proven that babies masturbate in the womb. But I think there are a couple different problems people have. A lot of men don’t know how to please a woman. Men need a woman to teach them and show them how it is done. They can’t know something they don’t have any experience with. They don’t know how to go slow. They don’t realize woman are different and need to be stimulated. So they stick it in, get over excited and bam!! it’s over and the woman is left laying there frustrated. There is also the difference between having sex and making love where they want to be with that person and want to please the other person. Some people only think of their own gratification. If this is a relationship it isn’t going to last very long.

    But sex is not religion and has nothing to do with God. There are people like me who are Buddhist and there is no god in our faith who resides somewhere out there in the universe. It depends on what you were taught, but that doesn’t me it is true, it is only what you believe to be true. And if that makes you happy and your life feels fulfilled then that is okay, but you can’t expect others to believe as you do. It is an interesting, though and well thought out.

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